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Is that it?
| Thu, 07-29-2004 - 10:20am |
A little over a year ago, I left my abusive partner with whom I have a 3 year old daughter. He has had no contact with us since I left him. I am currently still single. About two months ago, I ran into a man who I have been smitten with for nearly a decade, although he had been with the same woman for as long as I've known him. However, the night I ran into him, I hadn't seen him in over 4 years, and he informed me that his relationship has been over for a long time, and that he was interested in spending time with me. We began corresponding via email everyday, and I have met him out socially a few times since. A couple weeks ago, he informed me that he still lives with this woman, but he insists that they live together because neither of them wants to separate the other from their 7 year old son. He claims their relationship is strictly plutonic. I of course don't buy this for a second. I love spending time with him, but I informed him that because he still has a live-in girlfriend, our relationship would be strictly plutonic also. We still emailed each other multiple times per day, everyday.... Until two days ago, when I didn't receive a single email, and haven't received any since. Is that it? Does he want nothing to do with me because I won't sneak around with him behind his girlfriend's back? What a let down!

He can't get into social dating with you, he can't sleep with you openly and involve himself in your life...he's got a girlfriend and a child - and he'll lose both by doing anything publicly with you.
Of course he's out of the picture....what did you think was going on?
Erin
quickblade14@hotmail.com
I think you should be grateful if he is exiting your life, on his own.
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