is it bad if he talks bout his ex alot?
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is it bad if he talks bout his ex alot?
| Mon, 09-27-2004 - 7:51pm |
Hi I am new with the message board, but I have a question and i am really confused, I just started talking to this guy and I like him alot and he has been asking me to do stuff with him alot. We have a great time and I really think he likes me. But he is always talking about his ex who he just broke up with at the beginning of summer. Why is that? Is he trying to make me jealous or not over her or is he trying to tell me hes not sure if hes ready for another relationship? I am so confused. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!
Rachel

But, in my opinion, he's not over her...it also kida depends on what he says about her. if he's saying things like " I hate her, she's a B*****" then he still has a lot of anger left over from teh relationship, and you should give him about two more months to cool off before you try to date him. But if he's still kinda wounded and saying things like "she was disrespectful of me," then he may need to talk out his left over problems...but in general if he's still talking about her a lot, then there's a lot of left over emotions that he needs to address before the two of you can begin any type pf functionable relationship.
Hope I helped,
Rosie
or if you really feel like you can't come out and say that, then change the subject very quickly every time he mentions her.
He is probably just not over her and maybe he does not realize how often he brings it up. If he is saying things like,"my ex was sooo wonderful.." and things like that, then I would run the other way, but if he is just making general comments, I am sure he doesn't mean to upset you and he would want to know that it makes you feel uncomfortable.
That brought me to another question though. Maybe he doesnt really like me. Maybe he just thinks of me as a friend.I dont think he does but how could I find that out. It took him 2 weeks to aske for my number but when he did we talked everyday or saw eachother.How can I find out if he at least likes me? Sorry about all these questions, but I am really confused.Thank for all your help!!!!!!!!!!
Rachel
Thank for your help I really appreciate it.I totally understood what you were saying,I posted another question so if you have any advice on that I would greatly appreciate it.Thanks again.
rachel
I had a feeling that is what it was.Thank you so much for taking time to read and respond to my question. I dont plan on letting go for long but I dont want to come across as this really insecure person either. Thanks again so much and I hope things go better for your guy and you.
Rachel