Is it a good sign?
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Is it a good sign?
| Fri, 11-04-2005 - 9:55am |
I went on a date last night with this guy...im 23 hes 34 and a celebrity here in PR...and during the date he kept refering to a second date etc...so i got home and he called me and told me that he had a lot of fun, that i was great and mentioned a second date again...Is he trying to be nice or do you guys think that he liked me? Is calling right after the date a good sign or is it just normal?? Sorry if im asking stupid questions, im just wondering.

amarilisnjoel107...
Pianoguy has 2 questions for you:
"DID YOU ENJOY THE FIRST DATE ENOUGH TO GO ON A 2ND ONE?"
Depending upon your answer, you can choose to do a follow-up...or just tell him you're not interested.
Then ask yourself a second question:
"DOES HE REALLY LIKE ME FOR MY PERSONALITY AND APPEARANCE...OR IS HE EXPECTING SOMETHING ELSE?"
Pianoguy
<< "DOES HE REALLY LIKE ME FOR MY PERSONALITY AND APPEARANCE...OR IS HE EXPECTING SOMETHING ELSE?">>
PG, wouldn't that be an impossible question for her to honestly answer, after just one date? I mean, she's not in the guy's head.
amarilisnjoel107 - go with your instincts. If he SEEMED like he was genuinely interested in you for you, and you had a good time on the date, then by all means, go for it.
As for "is it a good sign?" ...ummmm, generally, I'd say if a guy is mentioning a second date while on the first and calls you to arrange another, how could that be a BAD sign? The only "bad" thing I can infer is that it may seem a little anxious or needy to call so soon. But, that may just mean that he had a really nice time and wants to make sure you meet up again.
hi starbuck!
Pianoguy's response was based on how the man behaved during the date....which really wasn't completely explained.
I certainly don't want to 'pour cold water' on any potential relationship with my advice or suggestions, but one thing about women I've discovered (through several ivillage message boards and thousands of personal responses) is that the majority of them usually KNOW by the end of date #1 if a man is truly interested...or just 'out to get some!'
While first impressions can often be confusing, I think both sexes can usually tell if the person they're spending time with makes them relaxed enough to be themselves...or if they're uncomfortable during the entire first date!
And that's why I responded the way I did!
Pianoguy
Why are you so worried about this situation, so early in the game?
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