is it me or am i missing his clues?
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is it me or am i missing his clues?
| Wed, 07-14-2004 - 9:36pm |
Hi ladies.. I’m hoping you can help me out with my dilemma. I met this guy through a matching website two weeks ago and we’ve started communicating through IM (instant message). He seems like a nice guy, nice enough to hang out with I think. We already talked on the phone thrice. I asked him twice to meet up for coffee; the first time he said he had a friend visiting and staying in his place for a week (which he later told me was his ex whom he's good friends with) and the second time he said he could meet me but he can’t drive too far as he is sick. I told him I didn’t want to drive far either and would rather meet him somewhere within my county, which he said is understandable. So, we cancelled that date. We’re an hour-drive and two counties apart. I don’t want to ask him for the third time and seem too eager though I really like to meet him in person now and find out if he is my type, or if he likes me. The past two days, I hardly catch him online and when I do, he doesn't initiate the exchange of instant messages anymore like he used to. What should I do? Should I ask him to meet up again for the 3rd time, wait for him to ask me, or forget the whole thing and move on. Help please...

Sheri