is it ok to ask a guy out
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is it ok to ask a guy out
| Fri, 09-24-2004 - 9:03pm |
hi! i have a question that's been bugging me and i never get the answer i wanted. So, I'm hoping you could help me or give me some ideas what to do. Ok....I met this guy on line and we've been exchanging emails quite awile already and on his emails to me he always mentions that maybe we should plan on meeting or talking over the phone. I wrote him back many times that he just have to let me know when the best time is or to call me so we can plan. However, he never tells me anything about it but he still mentions about this if he sends me an email. Then, I started chatting w/ him on line and told him that I'm hoping that I'll get a chance to meet him soon and he told me that we'll plan something but he never he doesn't say when. So, do you think it's ok if I initiate of asking him if he's available to grab a drink/coffee instead of waiting for him to plan about it. Do I sound desperate if I do that? Please enlighten me about this situation. Thank you.

I would send him an email that says something like, "I really prefer to get to know someone in person. Please call me when you're ready to set up a time to meet". Then don't respond to any emails that don't involve setting up an in person meeting.
Sheri