is it ok to show interest towards a guy?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-02-2004
is it ok to show interest towards a guy?
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Mon, 08-21-2006 - 9:57pm

this one is for the male and females out there...

short and simple: recently met a younger guy(2 years younger). he asked me to the movies, then had beer together. that same night he asked me to a group outting for sunday. had a GREAT time both times. i didn't want the night/day to end. so far he's been REALLY nice. i'm definitely interested. what should i do? i'm old-fashioned and typically wait for the guy to ask me out and pursue me. if he was interested, he'd ask me out again right? any suggestions, or advice?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-14-2003
Tue, 08-22-2006 - 7:34am
How long has it been since your last date?
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-02-2004
Tue, 08-22-2006 - 10:07am
1 week ago...
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-14-2003
Tue, 08-22-2006 - 10:57am
I don't see anything wrong with calling him to say hello and ask how things are going. He is either very busy, is not interested in pursuing things further, or didn't get the feeling that you wanted to continue dating. You won't know unless you contact him, but be prepared for answers.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-15-2003
Thu, 08-24-2006 - 11:00pm
Well, I also think in the beginning it's best for guy to pursue but I don't think it would be a horrible thing if say there was a movie the two of you discussed wanting to see and you asked casually if he wanted to see it with you
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