Is it okay for me to call him to say hi
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Is it okay for me to call him to say hi
| Wed, 06-23-2004 - 1:56am |
I met a man at the grocery store a year ago and we dated for two months. While we were dating, not exclusively, he would travel out of town for conferences and not call me to say hi. Something inside me told me that he was going to see someone. Because of this, one day I decided that I was not going to return his phone call on the same day he called. I called him 3 days later and did not hear from him until 3 days. Immediately after, we both discontinued contacting each other. I see this guy regularly on the way to work and we always wave at each other. Well a week ago, I ran across him at the coffee shop and he asked me out to coffee. I met him for coffee, which we had a nice conversation. He asked me if I would like to go out with him to a baseball game, and I said yes that I would like to go. He had a surprised look on his face and I then said again yes, I would like to go to the baseball game. He told me that he would call me next week, which I gave him my new number. Also, he told me that his number is still the same. I then asked him to write down his number. It has been a week and he has not called me with a date on when we will be going to the baseball game. I am trying to figure him out because he has not called me yet. I am wondering if I could have given him the wrong number or maybe he has changed his mind. Since he did tell me that his number is the same, is it okay for me to call him to say hi. I don't want him to think that I am not interested because I have not called. The reason I haven't and don't want to call just yet is because then I won't know if he is truly interested. Please help me with some advice.
annna7

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annna7
Oh you suffered a terrible loss. Give yourself some time to get through all the lingering emotions. In the meantime, nothing wrong with dating here and there. But that doesn't mean you need to be playing these games with guys who are wishy/washy on you. Move on - and if a guy comes along that things are casual, nice... go for it.
For this guy you met @ the grocery store... I think that he needs to be the one to initiate contact - IMO he blew it the first time bhy not returning your call. Now hes done it again with the flakiness. Not a good thing this early.
Good Luck. I wish you the best. -S
annna7
Just some things to think about from the other side of the fence.
annna7
besides, a man that is truly interested in you wouldn't wait for you to call him first. you deserve a better date anna, believe me you do.
Thanks for your response. I do know that I deserve to be with someone who wants to be with me and shows the interest. I have decided to forget about him and move on.
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