is it over?
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is it over?
| Fri, 06-16-2006 - 11:55pm |
I've been dating a guy for a little over a month. We usually go out once a week and one of us usually call later in the week to set up some plans. If I call and leave him a message he always calls me back, even when at work. Last weekend we went out, had a good time, he makes me laugh and also very nervous, I start babbling on about nothing! I Im him earlier in the week and he didn't answer me but set it to busy, he is usually not rude. I called him last night and left a message saying that I hope he was having a good week etc and give me a call sometime. I still haven't heard from him, could he have lost interest? I feel like I'm getting mixed signals because when he left my house the last time we went out we kissed and then when he started to walk away he came back for another kiss. That to me doesn't sound like someone uninterested...what are your opinions?? what is he thinking?
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| Sat, 06-17-2006 - 3:23am |
I don't think it's over. He may be dating other women as well OR he may be thinking on where to go with the relationship next. The kisses could be a "next step" for him and he may have retreated to his cave for reflection purposes. I'd give him some time and since you have IM and left a message last don't call him anymore. The ball in his court.
| Sat, 06-17-2006 - 7:16pm |
Well, its sat night and we did talk about going out and no sign of him. No response to my phone message or nothing. I guess I got dumped and he is too afraid to even email or call and explain. I don't understand men at all and I don't know what I could have done to make him want to end it!
| Sat, 06-17-2006 - 8:02pm |
Men are strange creatures and almost always they need time to process information longer than we women need; that's why they retrieve to their caves. It has nothing to do with what you did or didn't do. It's their nature. If a week more goes by and he is nowhere to be found I'd send him a breeze e-mail asking how his life is going. Leave it at that and see if he responds. He may be as well dating other women. In the meantime, get busy dating other men. Don't put all your eggs in just one basket. If he calls or e-mails you then you can decide if you want him in your life again.
