Is it over ?

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Registered: 11-18-2004
Is it over ?
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Fri, 11-19-2004 - 1:56am
With me and my BF we've been together for 5 mths now,but i've known him 2 mths prior before we hooked up actually as co-workers but kicked it outside of work,now I remind you that I am a year older than him and I do have a child that is not his,but to make a long story short I feel like I've known him forever he's shared a lot of stuff with me that he has not shared with other females nor friends,but a lot has changed between us sinced we've moved into his mother's house we were staying in my apartment before we came here. He didn't actually invite me to stay here by choice but by needing to because I've nowhere else to go,so like my first week here he made me feel real comfortable I've met most of his family and friends and whatever then the next week he just went mute he stop talking to me for no reason now may I remind you that I'm not working at the time but been seriously searching everywhere so anyways,he stop talking to me so of course knowing I've not done anything wrong to this man trying to kiss his as# but he still wouldn't let up so I say the next week him and his sister got into a altercation which left him stabbed 5 times in the arm so that night he came home from the hospital first thing he said when he got home was "you gotta go not this minute but eventually" so I said "may I know why you feel like this ?" he said I'm not ready for what you got to offer right now" (Whatever the fu@k that pose to mean) so I sat there quiet for a second and I asked him "what you don't wanna be with me nomore" he said "it's not I don't wanna be with you it's just I'm young and I still wanna wild out and fu#k with other bi@ches" so I said "It has nothing to do with me personally ?" he said "no you can ask any of my partna's I got mad love for you and I just don't wanna hurt you because you a good woman and I learned a lot from you and what to expect from my woman if I hook up with anybody but right now I'm just not ready."
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Registered: 06-20-2004
In reply to: iteresa21
Fri, 11-19-2004 - 11:54am

What you should be saying to yourself is thank god it's over.

Sounds like a great catch. NOT!