Is it over or not???

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Registered: 09-28-2004
Is it over or not???
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Fri, 10-15-2004 - 10:12pm
I have been dating a guy for a few months. At first, he was showing me an abundance of attention and we were having a great time. He soon started a very physical job, working 12-14 hour days, including weekends. We have been playing phone tag for the last couple of weeks. He has only returned one of my calls, which stated that he feels bad that he has been so busy and he wishes that he could show me some more time but he is taking advantage of the cash. He did tell me to call back and that he was looking forward to my call. However, I left him a message and he has not returned my call. I am not sure if he is just trying to let me down easy, or if I should be more patient wwith him. I really like the guy. We were fighting a tiny bit before this lull, but allll in all, things were going well. Should I hold out for him or should I get the hint and move on???
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 10-17-2004 - 12:36pm
a couple of months of dating and you were already fighting a little bit? I would let things drop.
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Registered: 08-10-2003
Sun, 10-17-2004 - 2:08pm
After 2 months of seeing you he might have found a woman who he is more interested in. Playing phone tag for a few week it's a way to know that he's "letting you go". It should, though, only take a few unretruned calls to see it.
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Registered: 05-20-2004
Mon, 10-18-2004 - 10:07am
I have to agree with the other two posts. He is letting you go easily. What is giving you is excuses because he doesn't want to be upfront and say it is over. When a guy wants to be with a girl..he will be with her. Nothing will stand in his way. I know this isn't what you want to hear...but I hate it when people give me false hope and in the end I found I have only wasted my time on a no where relationship.

Good Luck

Jodie

 

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Registered: 09-28-2004
Fri, 10-22-2004 - 1:34am

Thanks for the advise:) I now feel the same way and have a better outlook on it! After all, everything happens for a reason.

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Registered: 09-28-2004
Fri, 10-22-2004 - 1:36am
Yeah, I see your point. I guess I was just being hopeful:)
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Registered: 09-28-2004
Fri, 10-22-2004 - 1:40am
Hey, I always appreciate honesty:) At first I was feeling down about the whole thing, but now I am changing my outlook on the whole thing. After all, if we were fighting at such an early point in the relationship, it must've been for a reason. Oh well, such is life;)