Is it right to give him a chance?
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| Fri, 08-05-2005 - 7:22pm |
I met this guy a few weeks ago, we are actually neighbours and started talking and had really a lot to talk about immediately.
I could tell he became interested in me right away. A few days later he came to see me at my work in a coffee shop and then I met him two times close to my house when I was coming home from work and he told me he was on his way there to chat with me. He even asked me if I wanted to do something some day but then I just talked that away.
I first thought it was a little scary that he was so intense.. so I didn't make any contact with him and almost tried to avoid him, even though he didn't do anything wrong really. He just showed he was interested.¨
Well then he sent me just a casual text asking how I was doing the other day. I wasn't too soon to answer that. I've been involved with another guy this summer but it feels like nothing will ever happen with him and I need to date other guys.
So I thought, here's a nice guy who wants to date me, why not give him a chance?
Then the other night I found out we had common friends when we all gathered to play some volleyball. "my guy" really talked to me a lot, and he is very funny and talks constantly. He seems interested in my life aswell.
We had a great night all of us, and later I got a text from him saying he had had a lot of fun and that he'd like to do something this weekend. I answered that I'd like that too.
So today I got a text from him saying that he didn't have any plans for the weekend so I could just tell him when I was up for something.
What do I do now? I don't have a clue what to say to him, what should we do? I want him to plan a date for us.. I don't want to be the one doing that.. What should I tell him, now that he placed the ball in my court??
My friends also asked me if I wanted to go to a club with them tomorrow night. I really do but I also know I said to him first I was free this weekend. And on Sunday- Tuesday I'll have to go to my hometown to see my family, so it's only tomorrow...
Pleas give me some advice and suggestions what to do this weekend, and about this guy in general... is it right to give him a chance?

A chance to do what? He seems like he is very interested in dating you.
Call him up and tell him that you would like to spend a few hours with him and you would also love to try that new restaurant on the corner. He can meet you there at 7PM.