Is it time to let go?
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| Thu, 04-22-2004 - 9:42am |
Well needless to say I was thrilled by the e-mail. Of course, I e-mailed him right back and told him anytime would be fine with me. He e-mailed me and told me that maybe in the spring when his cousin comes in we could get together. Around the holidays I sent him a card and he sent me electronic card and again mention about getting together in the good ole spring.
At the beginning I didn't mind e-mailing first but after a while he was getting very vague with his replies. I couldn't get him to open up more. I know he's shy and not very good with conversation (as one of the ladies told me) but I was getting tired of always taking the initiative; especially since I wasn't getting much back. Another reason that I hung in there for (5 months) was his friend told me on the last day that she didn't think that he was gay; that he didn't know how to communicate very well. I was a little bit surprised about that. Because he is a tired doctor and teaches bridges and goes dancing. Maybe she saw something and she wanted me to know.
I just wish I had more time with him. I think that I have given this man ample opportunity to do something. It's just so hard to let go. This has never happened before. He also told me that when he finished his role of film on his next trip that he would send me a group picture (he has sent me 2 of them)when he got them developed. He has just come back from a cruise and its about a month now that I haven't heard from him. I thought that he would take the initiative for a change and send me the group picture. Very disappointed with this. Not even to drop a one line word Hi. I refused to e-mail him about his trip. For one thing, he was very very vague when I told him to have a good time. I'm getting tired of his reply button responses and one word answers. Sorry this is so long but as you can see I'm confused. Not even a Happy Easter note.
What should I do? Am I doing the right thing by not e-mailing him first again? Is it time to let go? Thanks for your help Mary Ann

Didn't you post about this man and situation before?
-- jajalel (formerly known as Jilly73)
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