is it too soon?

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Registered: 12-05-2004
is it too soon?
Sun, 12-05-2004 - 10:26pm
OK so maybe the answer seems simple but......I was in a relationship with a man named jay for about two years, it wasnt the best relationship and there was a lot of arguing. during this relationship i remained friends with an exboyfriend whom jay didnt want me talking to or seeing or anything and so the ex and i spoke only about once a month without jay knowing. i have always had strong feelings for my ex while i was with jay but would never have cheated on him. now that jay and i have broken up i have started to see the ex again and we plan on taking it slow althought its gotten very physical. me and jay have only broken up a month and half ago...my friends insist that it too soon and that i need time to be single. I have gone and a few dates but i find myself thinking of my ex...what should i do?