is it too soon to start a new date?
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is it too soon to start a new date?
| Fri, 05-07-2004 - 3:56pm |
I just broke off with my boyfriend days ago. It's not what I really want to do but it's best for both of us.
My friend called me yesterday asking me to see this guy she's been wanting to introduce for many months now. I agreed to go but now I'm having second thoughts with no positive reason except to wollow on previous relationship. My friend said he's a nice guy.
Is it too soon to date a new one this weekend?

Take the time to mourn first then meet this guy. If it's meant to be, he'll still be available when you're ready.
Sheri
good luck
The other guy waited almost 6 months since the first attempt to meet me and he's still very much interested. Everyone I know said to see him, you have nothing to loose. I know this one to be good and I do appreciate him waiting all this time. I don't want to continue turning him down specially since he patiently waited all this time.
No matter how much I love my ex, going back is not an option. Moving forward is a must.
Is is too bad to go out with the new guy just to meet, enjoy the time, no attachment? He can be a friend. It will give me time to heal and have someone to talk to. I think that as long as I focus on him being a friend, I'll be alright.
Is this still thumbs down?