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Its not supposed to be this way
| Mon, 09-20-2004 - 11:39am |
Sorry the last one got deleted....Anyways....Ok here is the story, I dated this guy for about 4 years, we were high school sweethearts. Well we broke up cause we were only two young kids and things like that happen when your that age. well now we have been apart for almost two years. the whole time we have been apart we have remained friends. we have always wanted to be together but the timing just is never right. we both have done some things in the past that we are not pround of and will take a lot to work through, but i am willing to. the problem is, he now has a girlfriend that he has been dating for about 4 weeks and he claims that he is happy. i dont really think he is though, he doesnt know how i feel. my queston is what do i do? i love this man more then anything in this whole world and i would do anything for him. what do i do, do i tell him, do i let him have his other relationship...what do i do? i am so lost and so in love....help me please!

You need to accept that things are over. You've been hanging on and hoping that he would go out with you again for the last two years, haven't you?
If it's truly a matter of timing and you are meant to be together, then if will. But you have to allow it to run it's course.
Good luck, I hope things work out for you.
Alison
I agree with Alison... it's not your place to "let him" have another relationship.
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Good luck!!
Elle