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Just friends... or more?
| Tue, 06-08-2004 - 4:35pm |
I have been working at my current job for about 1 year. I really like one of the guys I work with. We have become pretty good friends. We talk about everything. We go out to lunch everyday. We try to hang out outside of work but we have such busy schedules. I've told him I like him... so its not like he doesn't know. But I can't tell weather he's being a good friend or he really does like me. Sometimes I think he does and others I'm not so sure. He's a very sarcastic person so its hard to tell. Anything I should look out for? I'm very shy so I feel weird just coming out and asking how he feels! any advice?

At this point, I was so confused and adamant, I actually asked him if there could ever be more and he said...I don't see anything happening from where I stand.
I honestly think in hindsight that I would have been better off by NOT saying anything. But then again, I have known him for 3 years! And it was just getting to be too stressful not knowing where I stand. And I liked him very very much.
I actually called off the whole friendship. But my advice would be to test in every inarticulate way but don't say anything. Also, maybe try to meet/see other people. If he feels strongly about you, he will move real fast. If he doesn't, you know your answer.