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|Sun, 04-07-2013 - 8:25am|
I just broke up with a guy I was seeing for 2 months.
So here's the story of what happened when we were dating:
We decided to meet but he doesn't want to meet at Starbucks, a restaurant for drinks, but instead he wants to meet at a Walmart parking lot. In other words doesn't even want to spend one red cent on me.
Mind you he makes this huge deal discussion about how he should be able to see me more than once a week. He says lets go on a date but last minute says he doesn't want to go to a movie, go to dinner or even go bowling, so we end up meeting in the Walmart parking lot.
He says we will go on a date on Friday but then I don't here from him. So I decided to not call him, talk to him for a while.
Week Four thru Five:
We plan to see each other but he manages not to call me or calls me so late that I am too tired to go out. We see each other the next week and to make more of a situation worse I slept with him at a seedy hotel which I paid for (he implied he was going to pay for it) because he wasn't ready to let me see his place. Ok- yes I know that was a dumb ass thing for me to do but I was tired of being celibate.
So one day we make plans to see each other and he makes it my responsibility to figure out what we are going to do. Mind you he rejects every suggestion I had for what to do. So I talk to him about the fact I am not seeing him much and he basically blames it on having stuff come up and I should be patient and willing to be ok with the fact that he is not always going to see me when he says he will.
He continues to say we will see each other manages to see me once that week and avoids me the rest of the time. I finally stop seeing him because I had enough of his bs.
Is it just me or was this guy full of shit from the get go and totally emotionally unavailable. Clearly he wasn't that into me even though he told me he was.