Justed a little confused

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Registered: 07-08-2004
Justed a little confused
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Wed, 10-04-2006 - 10:47pm
I'm 23 and the guy I have been sleeping with for the last two years is 36. I really like the relationship we have because there's no strings attached, he does his thing and I do mind and when we are together that's our time. So are sex is great but were not real affectionate with each other, but maybe for the last year he will wake up in the middle of the night and start kissing me and wants to hold me close to him and then will go right back to sleep , but when he wakes up everything back to normal. I don't know whats going on , is he catching feeling?
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Registered: 04-14-2003
Thu, 10-05-2006 - 9:46am
It sounds like he is enjoying being intimate with you, but I doubt he is developing any deep feelings. If so, he'd be telling you.
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Registered: 04-15-2003
Fri, 10-06-2006 - 4:16pm
In our sleep we're very vulnerable and repressed emotions can rise to the surface - needing affection is a human instinct, I wouldn't necessarily take it for much more than that but you can mention, gee when we're sleeping you're very affectionate etc. " if you like it you can mention that too. see where the conversatino goes
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