Just...one of the guys.
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| Mon, 04-17-2006 - 3:09am |
Hello. I was just wondering if I could get some advice.
I hang out with a group of guys. I am usually the only girl, but even when I'm not the only girl, the guys treat me, and even refer to me as one of the guys.
When they make guys only nights, they joke around that I am still invited because I'm one of them. I like being accepted by them but there is another part to the problem.
They constantly joke around with me and flirting, but sometimes it is difficult to tell when they are being serious about certain things. They were talking in the car the other day and my friend told me they said:
"She's like a sister, and even though we joke around, we could never see her as anything but one of the guys."
How do I keep the acceptance as one of the guys, but make them see me as a girl...
I hope that makes sense...
Thanks.

It's hard sometimes cause I want them to see me as a girl, but be accepted as one of the guys... if that makes sense.
I'm thankful for what I've got but sometimes you can't help but wondering, what would it be like if you weren't "one of the guys"...
Wear a sexy outfit, that should help!
Yeah, thanks for the help.
I am still confused tho, cause there are a lot of people who think he likes me, and there are a lot of people who think I like him (Which i do, lol), but for some reason i always doubt it.
Oh well, I guess Ill just take your advice and "girly" up around them. If nothing happens, I'm more than happy just having him as a friend anyway.
Thanks.
I remember having that problem before I got married. Was one of the guys. Now, I still prefer to start with that sort of relationship, but include the flirting from the beginning and leave no doubt I'm a woman in how I dress and who I am. Keeps me from being one of the guys, but as I have been told, interesting and fun to be with at the same time.
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