Keeping a LDR hot?!?!

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-21-2004
Keeping a LDR hot?!?!
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Thu, 10-21-2004 - 1:34am

My bf and I have been together for almost six months, and its been long distance the entire time. It's been hard but I want this to work regardless of how much work it will take to do so.

I always worry he's out meeting other people, and in the beginning he was the one doing the pursuing - the thrill of the chase I guess. I think he's settled into the comfort zone, and doesn't email/call/do all the thoughtful things as often as he used to. He still does these things but just not as much as before! Now I feel like I'm the one putting the majority of the effort in and I need some advice on how to keep it interesting and keep it hot despite the distance, and how to make him take the initiative!

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Registered: 07-24-2003
Fri, 10-22-2004 - 12:09pm
Hello syred, welcome to the board!