kiss

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Registered: 02-01-2006
kiss
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Sat, 04-21-2007 - 11:41am
So...this 24 yr old guy has been pursuing me..I really like his ways..how he made me a cd, asked me out to dinner, opening doors, bringing wine over..I always thought this guy was a little"sketch" or unsure..bc of some people who he hangs out with may be the wrong crowd..We hung out yesterday for hours.he brought over wine..we really clicked and we have great chemistry. The only problem is that I dont find myself super attracted to him..but at times I can see it sip away when I see his true personality. Hes a bit skinny and akward sometimes but we get along wonderfly and he makes me laugh and i feel like he really gets me. When i'm with him, I don't feel like umping on top of him and i havent really wanted to kiss him so much. When he left last night, he gave me a hug and i could tell he wanted to give me a kiss, but i dont know..I pulled away.. I find myself just getting out of those situations that involve kissinghim..even though we have a great connection already..Maybe the kissing will just come soon if he kisses me? he asked me out to dinner tonight..I know I shouldn't be planning any moves..should I just let him put the moves o me and just follow it..and see how a kiss feels? I just don't know what to do
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Registered: 11-30-2006
In reply to: tunatartar
Sat, 04-21-2007 - 9:02pm
Sure, let him kiss you. Ask him for a kiss. If you don't feel like you want to jump all over him and kiss him, you need to pay attention to that. I knew a girl once who was very attracted to her boyfriend on a spiritual and emotional level, but sexually there was nothing there and she had to get drunk to have sex with him. You definitely don't want to go there. He was a great guy and I was sad to see them break up, but he deserves to have a woman who thinks he's great in every way.