kissing

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Registered: 03-17-2004
kissing
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Mon, 03-22-2004 - 5:27pm
How do you know if a guy wants to kiss you or what kind of signs from a girl does a guy look for if it is O.K. to kiss her? How can a girl let a guy know it's O.K for him for kiss her? A few times I have gone out with this guy and at the end of every date there seems to be an awkward moment when he drops me off at home. We're both a little nervous and it seems like we don't know how to end the date so I just dash out of the car. Then as I'm getting out of the car, he says he'll call me and this is how all of our dates have ended.
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Registered: 02-16-2004
In reply to: faithhopelove86
Mon, 03-22-2004 - 6:53pm
You're so cute, FHL...

I'm usually very up front with people, so I say TELL HIM! Let him know that he can plant one on you any time. If you don't want to tell him with words, say it with body language. Look into his eyes...bite or moisten your lips a little (just a little, now, nothing pornographic)...touch his arm...hold his hand...any of these things would probably work. I like the guy to make the first move so I don't come off as easy, but if he's just not getting it, beat him to the punch and kiss him first. A lot of guys actually like it when the woman makes the first move. Just make sure he knows where your boundaries lie. Good luck to you...I hope it's a good one!

-Goose