Know why I have sex so soon? I do.
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Know why I have sex so soon? I do.
| Tue, 05-22-2007 - 1:23am |
I find myself often having sex on the second or third date because it bonds me to a guy. Not to sound shallow, but until I have had sex, I don't feel that deep connection. I want to make sure he's not lacking either in size or technique, becasue then I lose interest and I personally don't want to invest alot of time seeing a guy if I'm not going to be happy with him sexually. I know it's not right that I'm like this, but how do I change? Because obviously, I must be scaring them off by having sex so soon, even though it's them initiating it. I want to turn over a new leaf, but I don't want to invest any time in a guy who may be a bore in bed, like my ex-husband was. Know what I mean?

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Technically, I'm at Crystal Falls in Cedar Park, but who knows where that is?
Hey, you never answered my question...how small does the guy have to be for you to say "next"? I suppose there might be a size where I'd have the same reaction, but I guess I've been lucky not to encounter one that small.
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