The "L" Word

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Registered: 07-21-2006
The "L" Word
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Tue, 10-03-2006 - 4:57pm


Just wondering, from the guys; how long does it usually take you to drop the L-Bomb? IS there even a certain amount of time? Or maybe, how long does it generally take for you to know that you love someone and be comfortable enough to say it?

Just curious.

***If you don't know where you are going, any road will take you there. Lewis Carroll (1832-1898)***
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Registered: 11-21-2003
Tue, 10-03-2006 - 9:26pm
I'm not guy, but have an opinion on the matter. There is no time frame to know when you've fallen in love with someone and are prepared to say "I love you". It's not about the months you date or else, it's about feeling comfortable, safe, loved and in love.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 10-03-2006 - 10:29pm

curlygirl35...

Most men...if they're smart...will never "drop the L word" until they're absolutely positively sure that the feeling is genuine.

PG realizes that more than a few members of his sex WILL use the term in order to get a desirable woman in bed, but for the most part we'll refrain from this "TERM OF ENDEARMENT" until we REALLY want to let you know how we HONESTLY feel.

Wanna know why?

Simply because the moment we say the "L" word to any woman...SHE'LL NEVER LET US FORGET OR TAKE THE WORD BACK!

Pianoguy