The L-word
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The L-word
| Wed, 09-15-2004 - 7:13am |
I'v been best friends with this guy i'm dating now for about six months. Three months ago, we started dating. It's going great so far. Great sex, we talk every other hour, we see each other almost every day, he tells me all his secrets and he knows mine. Practically nothing goes on in his life without me knowing it and sharing every moment. I've been there for him when things were tough at work and he was very depressed. The only thing that's bothering me though is that so far he has not told me that he loves me. I know I'm ready for that! But I'm too scared that if I say it first it might drive him away, it might scare him off and lead him to think that I want him to committ when it's yet too early.

Saying the "L" word isn't always easy for some men....so what's wrong with YOU asking him:
"DO YOU LOVE ME...AT LEAST A LITTLE?"
Your b/f is gonna have to say something, right?
Pianoguy
You don't have to say you love him, you can say, "I'm falling in love with you". That sounds a little less risky and see what his response is.
Won't you feel sillier if he was just waiting for YOU to say it first for the same fear?
Alison
Being birn female, you are at a disadvantage. We love much quicker, harder, stronger, and longer han men. I would wait before saying the L word. He will probably be freaked out and start treating you all wierd. There's nothing worse than wearing your heart on your sleeve.
Keep it safe and hidden for right now, You'll be glad you did.
Good Luck
Ms. Sylence