Ladies - how important is SEX in LTR

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Registered: 05-17-2004
Ladies - how important is SEX in LTR
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Mon, 07-05-2004 - 1:30am
LTR meaning long term relationship

How important is it? What % of sex makes up the relationship? Would u date a guy who sucks in bed?

discuss

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Registered: 06-05-2004
Mon, 07-05-2004 - 6:40am
djrazr,

Sex does not make a relationship survive. Even with great sex in a relationship, cheaters cheat. Lousy sex can have a bad effect on intimacy, but reading Cosmo could easily fix that!

Values and communication form a better basis for long term.

lightship
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Registered: 04-19-2004
Mon, 07-05-2004 - 8:05am
Sexual attraction is very important to me, I couldn't be in a long term relationship if we were not sexually compatible.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 07-05-2004 - 12:12pm
Sex is EXTREMELY important to me in a LTR. It is how I express my love. Not just "sex" but all kinds of physical intimacy - back rubs, playing with his toes, etc. Good sex is based on openness, trust and great communication. With those tools, I can teach a guy who is willing, interested and secure what/how I like things.