Ladies - What makes a MAN unapproachable
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Ladies - What makes a MAN unapproachable
| Thu, 09-29-2005 - 12:29am |
Is it his height? Looks? Status?
Is it a intimidation factor?
Is it a intimidation factor?

I love a smile and I love someone who talks even if it's just little things. That tells me he's friendly.
UNapproachable?
I would say a lot of things would make a guy unapproachable. Not smiling, not being polite, looking at the ground, having a wedding ring on- haha.
I think it might be better to ask what would make a man easy to approach. For me, it goes a little further than if he's smiling or laughing and having a good time. Those are good door-openers but for me to approach a guy, I've got to be pretty assured that he wants me to talk to him. Maintaining eye contact longer than normal, but not in a creepy way, is a good way to do this. I guess it all depends on how forward the woman is. Some women need no more than a half-second glance while others would rather have you hold up a sign that says "apprach me". However, I wil say this, a guy relaxing and being himself is attractive no matter if it's the first time you meet or you've known him for years.
It's different things for different women - not a one stop shopping type answer.
the vibe that he gives through his eyes, expressions, behavior, body language and language(if i can hear him) etc. plays an imp. role. it's a mixture of different elements. i think the eyes play a major role. but, it should not feel forced. it should be a natural mutual thing. and i rather, the man approach me than the other way round. but there's a bit of a paradox here, becoz i dig the shy guys too. not shy, as in painfully shy with low self-esteem. but that lovely mixture of shyness n reserve, a good nature with that smile, coupled with enough confidence to just be himself. that is very attractive to me. and if i am feeling bold, i might approach that guy to say howdy :-) there are these guys who respect women way too much to flirt with them or approach them. and i like such guys. but that's just me.
Every thing you wrote, I nodded my head. You're so right. ;-)