LADIES...you won't believe this!!!!!!
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| Tue, 07-06-2004 - 1:14pm |
ok, well, again...some of you might remember me from my posting here about my office crush from about 4 months ago...
well, took her out to lunch once, nothing happened after that...case closed.
well, recently, i went back to online dating, figuring i run into all sorts of girls i've dated everytime i go out, so, why not try a diff't avenure, right
so, i start talking to two girls. one girl i decide to meet. we meet for drinks, and while we are there we discuss where i work. ends up
she's real good friends with my office crush! small world, right? so, she had asked me for a second date, and i said yes. we ended
up going to a concert together last week. it was fun, we actually ended up kissing, but because of the major crush i had on this other girl that i worked with, i didn't
feel comfortable continuing. yes, i know, chastize me for kissing a cute girl....i know.
well, after that date, i decided 'no mas' on that one girl, ASIDE from her relations to my office crush, i just didn't feel right about it.
she grew up completely diff't from me, and i truly believe that we're best with people with similar backgrounds...NOT IDENTICAL...
similar.
so, two days later, i'm talking to the other woman i had been talking to online as well. NOTE...i started to talk to both of these women
within days of one another. she's a northerner like me, grew up blue collar like me, worked in the same field, and had alot more in
common with her on the surface. she had sent me a pic, and i already knew she was attractive. BUT...i asked her to send me more
pics (one is never enough in online dating), so she did....THE GIRL I WENT OUT WITH FIRST IS HER FRIEND TOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i fell
off my chair when i opened it up! there she was in the pics! i chin hit the floor when
i opened up the email....
so, my question is, how weird is that? and secondly, what are my options here??????

Good luck.