LADIES...you won't believe this!!!!!!

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Registered: 11-18-2003
LADIES...you won't believe this!!!!!!
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Tue, 07-06-2004 - 1:14pm
wow! crazy story here...

ok, well, again...some of you might remember me from my posting here about my office crush from about 4 months ago...

well, took her out to lunch once, nothing happened after that...case closed.

well, recently, i went back to online dating, figuring i run into all sorts of girls i've dated everytime i go out, so, why not try a diff't avenure, right

so, i start talking to two girls. one girl i decide to meet. we meet for drinks, and while we are there we discuss where i work. ends up

she's real good friends with my office crush! small world, right? so, she had asked me for a second date, and i said yes. we ended

up going to a concert together last week. it was fun, we actually ended up kissing, but because of the major crush i had on this other girl that i worked with, i didn't

feel comfortable continuing. yes, i know, chastize me for kissing a cute girl....i know.

well, after that date, i decided 'no mas' on that one girl, ASIDE from her relations to my office crush, i just didn't feel right about it.

she grew up completely diff't from me, and i truly believe that we're best with people with similar backgrounds...NOT IDENTICAL...

similar.

so, two days later, i'm talking to the other woman i had been talking to online as well. NOTE...i started to talk to both of these women

within days of one another. she's a northerner like me, grew up blue collar like me, worked in the same field, and had alot more in

common with her on the surface. she had sent me a pic, and i already knew she was attractive. BUT...i asked her to send me more

pics (one is never enough in online dating), so she did....THE GIRL I WENT OUT WITH FIRST IS HER FRIEND TOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i fell

off my chair when i opened it up! there she was in the pics! i chin hit the floor when

i opened up the email....

so, my question is, how weird is that? and secondly, what are my options here??????

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Registered: 05-05-2003
Tue, 07-06-2004 - 3:52pm
I would suggest that you leave well enough alone and not meet with this one. Find another person to date. If you start dating this one and you meet the first one out, she will be upset that you chose her friend over her. Best not to continue dating within a circle unless you had absolutely NO idea they were friends.

Good luck.

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Registered: 07-24-2003
Thu, 07-08-2004 - 4:22pm
Hello again growl!