Lonely guy dilemma .. should I call ?

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Registered: 12-29-2007
Lonely guy dilemma .. should I call ?
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Sat, 12-29-2007 - 5:20pm

hi everyone,

Would love a female's point of view on a matter I'm experiencing. I met a really cute girl at an airport 2 weeks ago. I sat down next to her in the lobby and fortunately our flight was delayed, and later canceled. We spent around 3-4 hours together, had great conversation and laughed pretty much the whole time. I asked for her number, she agreed to give it to me. Instead of calling (due my nerves getting the best of me) I decided to text her a week and a half after our initial meeting at the airport. Her response was pretty much vague which led me to believe she wasn't interested. My question is, did I wait too long? Do I still have a shot? Now I should mention, I do have a low self esteem problem (probably from people calling me ugly throughout the years).

Do I take the vague, uninterested text responses from her to mean she's just not interested.. or should I bite the bullet and give her a call? I know I'm a really great guy who has a lot to offer a girl, but it's just not easy finding the right one.

Regards,
VeggieV




Edited 12/30/2007 11:08 am ET by veggievin
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Sun, 12-30-2007 - 12:05pm

Just get it overwith--even if she turns out to not be interested, at least you'll KNOW, so you can stop thinking about it.


Sheri

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Sun, 12-30-2007 - 12:12pm

"Let her know with class and in the way of a gentleman you want to see her in the future.

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Sun, 12-30-2007 - 12:24pm

Okay...I have an idea.

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Registered: 12-29-2007
Sun, 12-30-2007 - 12:26pm

You know you are correct in the flowers and card are

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Registered: 12-29-2007
Sun, 12-30-2007 - 12:32pm
Ok.. within the half hour I'm going to call I believe. Will act as if this is a just friend..
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Sun, 12-30-2007 - 12:50pm
Ok so you HAVE to let us know what happened after you call!
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Registered: 11-10-2007
Sun, 12-30-2007 - 1:25pm

I see it everyday - men just dont have an interest in being dignified in any kind of way.

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Registered: 12-29-2007
Sun, 12-30-2007 - 6:27pm

Speaking of technology.. I REALLY would love to text her first and ask her if she's not too busy for a phone conversation..then I'd call.. does this sound completely lame girls?

I have the text all set up and ready to go- once I hear from one of you experts. :D

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 12-30-2007 - 8:01pm

TEXTING IS LAME!!!


I can't believe you haven't picked up that phone and called yet!!!


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Sun, 12-30-2007 - 8:05pm

I did do the text message. She didn't respond.. oh well, this was a tough lesson to learn because for two weeks, she occupied my thoughts. :) It's ok though, I'm back in the hunt I guess.

V