Lonely guy dilemma .. should I call ?
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| Sat, 12-29-2007 - 5:20pm |
hi everyone,
Would love a female's point of view on a matter I'm experiencing. I met a really cute girl at an airport 2 weeks ago. I sat down next to her in the lobby and fortunately our flight was delayed, and later canceled. We spent around 3-4 hours together, had great conversation and laughed pretty much the whole time. I asked for her number, she agreed to give it to me. Instead of calling (due my nerves getting the best of me) I decided to text her a week and a half after our initial meeting at the airport. Her response was pretty much vague which led me to believe she wasn't interested. My question is, did I wait too long? Do I still have a shot? Now I should mention, I do have a low self esteem problem (probably from people calling me ugly throughout the years).
Do I take the vague, uninterested text responses from her to mean she's just not interested.. or should I bite the bullet and give her a call? I know I'm a really great guy who has a lot to offer a girl, but it's just not easy finding the right one.
Regards,
VeggieV
Edited 12/30/2007 11:08 am ET by veggievin

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Could it be this is her way of starting something up? It's been 3 weeks, she completely shocked me by the text.
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"Could it be this is her way of starting something up? It's been 3 weeks, she completely shocked me by the text."
Yes, she is trying to start something up. I would never just randomly text a guy I didn't hear from in three weeks unless I liked him.
I recommend you CALL her within the next day or two (if you haven't already) and leave a voicemail telling her it was good to hear from her, to have a great trip and to let you know when she returns (I only say voicemail b/c I assume she won't answer her phone while she's in Argentina). DON'T send her another text instead of an actual call... especially since she's leaving the country--text messages might be lost/not delivered depending on what kind of phone she has and her service while she's out of the country.
And, FYI, I really think she must like you from reading about all your interactions...
hi little bubba :)
thanks so much for your post, it makes sense. But, I am having a hard time believing she does like me.. I think she may have just been bored, and waiting for her flight to depart at the same place where we met prompted her to give me a call.
It's all just a bit shocking to me. Why must there always be some sort of game involved.. I will leave a message tomorrow but based on her lack of a response 3 weeks ago I doubt she'll even respond. No big deal on my end though..
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