long distance relationship question

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Registered: 02-10-2008
long distance relationship question
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Sun, 02-10-2008 - 9:13pm

So..I have been dating a man since oct 2007, he lives in ND and in the Air Force

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Registered: 02-10-2008
Tue, 02-12-2008 - 12:11am
I totally see what you are saying and I wouldn't mind moving but I right now I am unable to move because I am graduating in May from College. So for Graduate school I could go up there but I told him I would not uproot my life unless there was a ring involved because my life is in Illinois.
The thing is that I have known this man for 5 years previously as a friend before even getting involved with him and I knew he was was living in ND. So, for right now we are taking a break to see if this is what we both really want to do.
Trust is not a problem. I just don't know since we are totally beyond the infatuation stage and the "honeymoon" stage if this still can stand a chance. I want to believe that it can but I know relationships can't be one sided and I know I try to go up to ND whenever I can but since I am finishing up with the school I really don't have the time to go up there as often as he would like me to. So, I am sure that doesn't really help things at all. But right now its all I can do besides email and phone calls. Sorry for the ramble!!
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Tue, 02-12-2008 - 6:13pm
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Registered: 11-10-2007
Tue, 02-12-2008 - 10:37pm
It was a good book wasnt it?

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