Losing interest, or telling the truth?

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Registered: 10-06-2004
Losing interest, or telling the truth?
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Mon, 10-11-2004 - 2:23pm
How can you tell if the guy you are dating is losing interest, or if his schedule is just conflicting with yours? See, I met this guy about 10 days ago, and we've gone out half those days. Its good when we are together, we go to the park, to watch plays, or just hang out at his house. It was good and he was calling me asking if I wanted to go out in the beginning, but now, he hasn't really called to see if I have wanted to go out and do something. He does call me when he says that he will, but when you are interested in someone, especially in the beginning, don't you want to see that person alot? See, I like this guy alot and would love to see him more but I feel like its not mutual. But I do have a tendancy to over analyze everything so do you think that I should just let things run their course, or talk to him about it. Because if he is losing interest, i'd rather have him tell me so that I know, instead of wondering. Even though we haven't went out recently, we still talk on the phone, so its not like he's not calling. Its just when we do talk, he's tired and going to bed, or busy. But he still does call every night. So any advice would be awesome! Thank you guys!
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Registered: 07-24-2003
Thu, 10-14-2004 - 2:51pm
Hello ccccalistarlette, welcome to the board!

 
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Registered: 09-15-2004
Thu, 10-14-2004 - 9:41pm
Hi,

I agree with the other poster, 5 days out of 10 is pretty darn good. I think that right now he may just feel like things may be moving a little fast for him. Calling you every night is also a good sign. Even if he is tired, at least he called. He wouldn't call if he seriously wasn't into you. I think it'll become more clear about what's going on with more time, and you'll see where things lead.

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Registered: 07-21-2004
Thu, 10-14-2004 - 10:02pm
Whoa, Nelly! You've known him for 10 days and you've been out with him on five of those days? LOL That doesn't sound like he isn't interested to me.

Don't worry so much - if he's still making time to call you and still making plans with you, then that's great.

If he always calls you when he says he will, that's great, too.

Sometimes it's not a good idea to see TOO much of eachother too soon.

So just relax and enjoy. :)

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