losing your virginity to a married man
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losing your virginity to a married man
| Tue, 04-27-2004 - 9:39am |
Its not that I am confused about losing my virginity, but the fact that I lost it to a married man that is 9 years older than I. At 17, some people may think that it is still early to be having sex. What surpases that is the fact that he has been married for about 6 years. His relationship with his wife is not a healthy one. He has been in and out about 5 times but never divorced, and he approached me. He says he is still with his wife for financial reasons. He has also been in this type of situation before. What am I still doing with him?

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I guess I DON'T get your point? You've chosen to play a combative game with me instead of reading and understanding my responses. This doesn't seem very mature or fair on your part.
Pianoguy is just expressing his own opinion. But I sense that you'd rather be confrontational and instead...transfer your personal experiences rather than consider how this 17-year old girl might actually be feeling right now?
Since picking a fight with you isn't (and wasn't) my intention, I'm gonna drop out of this discussion.
Each of us is entitled to his or her opinion....but calling me "sexist" because I've expressed mine seems a little childish on your part, doesn't it?
Pianoguy
i guess it just irks me and comes across as "sexist" to me when men post in a manner i find mildly condenscending and presumptious as if most women are fools for love and most men are sex fiends out for one thing....there are plenty of sensible women who live their entire lives never being "used" by men...i am in my 40's and have never met a "dawg", in fact every man i've had a romance with i find to be very similar to me in terms of needs and expectations.
honey
honey
So for someone as young as you, you have a lot ahead in store for you. Get out before it's too late. Best of luck!
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