losing your virginity to a married man

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Registered: 04-27-2004
losing your virginity to a married man
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Tue, 04-27-2004 - 9:39am
Its not that I am confused about losing my virginity, but the fact that I lost it to a married man that is 9 years older than I. At 17, some people may think that it is still early to be having sex. What surpases that is the fact that he has been married for about 6 years. His relationship with his wife is not a healthy one. He has been in and out about 5 times but never divorced, and he approached me. He says he is still with his wife for financial reasons. He has also been in this type of situation before. What am I still doing with him?

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Registered: 04-15-2003
Mon, 05-03-2004 - 9:22pm

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Registered: 10-12-2003
Tue, 05-04-2004 - 7:41pm
Wow Terry... you never fail to impress me. You saying "...some never learn how to love another enough to let them go? It's when they are thinking more of themselves than of you that they never learn that..." couldn't have come at a more perfect time... And it just really sums up a lot. Thanks.

 

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Registered: 07-24-2003
Tue, 05-04-2004 - 8:03pm
bklynchik, that is one of those truisms that one never thinks about until they have experienced it... I'm glad you understood its meaning and that it is of some help.

 
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 05-05-2004 - 7:12pm
Terry...

You probably remember Floyd's biggest hit was a song called: "LAST DATE?" But there were also several albums he recorded that covered various types of pop and country music from the 60s, 70s and early 80s.

During my gigs, I try to mix things up. I usually take my "musical cues" from the audience or group of people who are present. Whether it's rock 'n' roll, show music, TV or radio themes or even an odd ball novelty tune...the idea is to "keep people happy!"

And what's nice is when there are some extra ten or twenty dollar bills in my tip jar at the end of the night. Those certainly keep ME happy! :)

Pianoguy

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Registered: 07-24-2003
Wed, 05-05-2004 - 8:47pm
bc, you are welcome!! As they say, "timing is everything"!! - Glad I could help at the proper moment.

 
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Registered: 07-24-2003
Wed, 05-05-2004 - 11:29pm
Do I remember "Last Date"? Of course... I also remember working with Floyd at Bradley's studio... Floyd was on a lot of Brenda's recordings as he was one of the best studio pianists in Nashville. I went to Floyd's funeral in January of '98 (he died right before New Years Eve in '97). That was one of Nashville's greatest losses...

 
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 05-06-2004 - 7:41am
Boy you two are really dating yourselves...LOL

*wink*

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