Love?

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Registered: 10-29-2003
Love?
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Mon, 03-15-2004 - 1:12pm
Okay, I'm an intelligent woman. I've been in love before, but I guess I just don't trust my instincts. I have been dating a wonderful man for the past month. I have never had a more compatible relationship. Our communication is great we have a lot of fun together. So here's the thing. Am I in love with him? When we are together I have to keep my mouth shut because I don't want to tell him that I'm in love with him. My brain tells me that it is too soon to be in love but I know how my heart feels so it is hard to dismiss my feelings. Anyway, my question is... how do you know when you are in love?
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Registered: 02-19-2004
In reply to: alias9601
Mon, 03-15-2004 - 1:37pm
To me, a month is also too soon. Your head is telling you this, listen to both your head and your heart. To be sure it is not early relationship euphoria, keep it to yourself for now. Let him say it first. Just enjoy the feeling and keep your feet on the ground as much as you can. Keep getting to know him. After a month you can't know all there is to know about him (at least not if he's a well rounded, interesting person). Wait, be patient. If the feeling continues and he confesses his love to you, then go for it.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: alias9601
Mon, 03-15-2004 - 1:55pm

I don't think you can truly

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Registered: 03-15-2004
In reply to: alias9601
Mon, 03-15-2004 - 2:35pm
Take your time and just enjoy him. It seems that you are longing to be in love and settle down. Do not be longing for love until it clouds your judgement. Use common sense in additon to your heart so things will be in balance. Time reveals all.