Love Grows?
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| Wed, 04-04-2007 - 10:46am |
Okay... so I have heard a million times in my life that love takes time to grow. But I'm just not sure....
I recently met a new guy about two months ago. We have been having a great time together. On paper and in real life he is pretty much everything I've been wanting. He is fun and funny, affectionate, honest, he has a really good heart. He is sexy and very attractive to me because he is a little mysterious and he is not settled in his life. He is graduating from college in May and looking for jobs in different states. He has already said that he would like it if I moved away with him and I want to. I wanted to move away anyway and this way I wouldn't have to do it alone.
My question is... sometimes I'm not so sure that he is the one for me. I struggle to find anything I don't like about him but at the same time my feelings for him are not as intense... like head over heels mushy love like I have had over guys in the past. Do you think this is a sign that we don't have good chemistry? Or does it make more sense that I am just more mature now than I was when I met my ex 2.5 years ago. Could the way I be feeling... excited and content but cautious be a good thing? And if so should I keep moving forward with this relationship. Is it true that love can grow?? Is it bad not to feel completely overly inflatuated with someone in the beginning?
A little extra background... my boyfriend of 2.5 years just broke up in November and I moved out of the house I shared with him in Janurary. I thought I was going to marry my ex but in the end I ended it because we didn't want the same things and I wasn't willing to wait any longer.

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