In Love With A Married Man
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In Love With A Married Man
| Wed, 09-22-2004 - 9:55pm |
I am in some really big heart trouble, and don't know what to do. I am in love with a married man, and the thing is he told me he was married from the start, he never tried to hide it from me. I was so atracted to him that it did not seem to bother me then, but it does now, I know that I should have never been with him to begin with, but it's to late for that. You see I have been with him 2 years now, and I love him and he says that he loves me, his wife found out about use and told him that she was leaving if he kept seeing me, and the thing is he never stopped, so I think he must love me don't you think?
The thing is he always gose home to his wife and kids everynight, and I want him here with me and I fill I am drifting away from him and I don't want that to happen, but it is I fill it. I sometimes think I need to move on , but to be quite honest, I really don't know what I would do with him, or even how I would tell him. Please give me some advice any would be welcome.
The thing is he always gose home to his wife and kids everynight, and I want him here with me and I fill I am drifting away from him and I don't want that to happen, but it is I fill it. I sometimes think I need to move on , but to be quite honest, I really don't know what I would do with him, or even how I would tell him. Please give me some advice any would be welcome.

No I don't. Sorry, just because he continued sleeping with you after she found out and told him not too doesn't mean he is in love with you. It means he's probably an excellent liar and manipulator, probably spun a new lie to her that he ended it with you and just got better at hiding it.
I suggest you go over to the relationship My Affair Support. It can really open your eyes to the rollercoaster and hurt you will continue on experiencing with him. You've spent 2 years as second best, when do you want to be 1st? You won't ever be 1st with this guy, UNLESS she leaves him, if she leaves him, then he'll take up with you and more than likely cheat on you and then you'll be in a position that you and he has put his wife in.
I suggest counseling as well to deal with the reasoning you chose to be with a married man rather than finding someone who was available.
Good luck.