love me love me not?

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Registered: 02-06-2006
love me love me not?
Tue, 02-07-2006 - 12:28am
hey everyone,
my name is ashley and im 21 and my bf is 20. we love each other and get into fights like any couple. sometimes hell get really mad at me bc i can be a little immature and he will say "if this is how ur gonna act than maybe we shoudlnt be together" i can also be a little selfish sometimes and he will get mad and say that maybe we need a break if ur gonna continue like this...but sometimes he gets mad for no reason.. like i call him a pet name that he HATES and hell yell at me and say "didnt i tell u not to say that?" i really want this to work...so i take what he says and remember not to do it again....he has ashort temper so.....but anyway... sometimes well be making love and he will tell me to "promise him to never leave him" or hell say that randomly when we are just holding each other...hes never been a serious relationship before......so idk why he contradicts himself?
thx
ashley