LOVE or INFATUATION.....................

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Registered: 03-26-2003
LOVE or INFATUATION.....................
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Sun, 05-02-2004 - 11:09pm
"LOVE or Infatuation"


Infatuation is instant desire. It is one gland calling the other.

LOVE is friendship caught afire. It takes root and grows

one day at a time. Infatuation is marked by insecurity,

you are excited and eager, but not genuinely happy.

There are nagging doubts and unanswered questions,

little bits and pieces about your beloved you would just

as soon not examine too closely, it might spoil the dream.

LOVE is a quite understanding and mature acceptance

of imperfection. It is real it gives you strength and grows

beyond you. to booster your beloved, you are warmed by

his/her presence, even when he/she is away. Miles don't

separate you. you want him/her near, But near or far you

know he's/she's yours and you can wait.

Infatuation says, "We must get married right away, I can't

risk losing you." LOVE says, be patient, don't panic, he/she

is yours, you can plan your future with confidence."

Infatuation has an element of sexual excitement. if you are

honest, you will admit it is difficult to be in one another's

Company without it ending in intimacy.

LOVE maturity allows you to be friends before you are

lovers. Infatuation lacks confidence. When he/she is away,

you wonder if he/she is cheating, sometimes you even check.

LOVE means trust, you are calm, secure and unthreaten.

he/she feels that trust and makes him/her more trustworthy.

Infatuation will lead you to do things you will regret later,

LOVE never will. LOVE lifts you up, it makes you look up

it makes you a better person than you were before.



pass it on ...... :)


iVillage Member
Registered: 04-26-2004
Mon, 05-03-2004 - 9:17pm
That was awesome!! I couldn't have read it at a better time.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-15-2003
Mon, 05-03-2004 - 9:27pm

That's lovely. Thank you for sharing.


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