Lover to friend?
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Lover to friend?
| Mon, 09-20-2004 - 2:19am |
I have been seeing this man for the last 7 months. I am a divorced mother of two boys 2 yrs. and 4 yrs. old, quite a handful. I have my kids full time. He and I have been intimate since the beginning of our relationship but we have kept it very casual with the exception that we would notify one another if we were to meet someone else. Anyhow, my kids adore him, we have had a lot of wonderful moments together, have experienced a lot in our 7 months, and have become quite close. The problem is I have fallen in love with him and I have told him, but he doesnt think he could handle a relationship with me and my kids on a serious basis. Did I mention that I am 24 and so is he? So that I feel could change, right........? Well I am going crazy over this situation because we are to close to stop being in eachothers lives, but how do I let go of this fantasy and love and just settle for friendship? We both agree that we want to be in eachothers lives, so Im lost... Any advise would be nice.

To be honest, I haven't got a clue where you could go from here.
Elle