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Lovesick:(
| Mon, 08-16-2004 - 5:24pm |
I guess I am feeling love sick. Feel like a school girl or worse. Feel like I will not see this guy for a few weeks, dont have any reason to go to his business and we never bump into each other. I posted a couple of days ago and got that he couldnt ask me out cause he has his business reputation to think of. I am so frustrated and sad, cause the last few times weve seen each other, I just felt so good. Now, I have no reason to see him and dont want to seem too anxious. Yes, I am getting it that I will probably have to be the one to ask him out, but I cant just spring it completely out of the blue. I have to go in there, still feel that he does have an interest and then, MAYBE ask him something. I dont know what. But now, I am so sad and blue to not know when I can see him again.

He's not interested, so quit fantasizing and find someone who is interested. Nothing you say or do will change this guy's mind, so enough. You are not love sick, you're in lust for something you can't have. Give your head a shake and stop it. You are worth more than chasing someone who does not reciprocate your feelings. So go and find THAT guy, and leave THIS one alone...
Believe me, if he was interested, he would have asked you out. No point chasing a dream.
Like you, the guy I liked works in a management position and has a positive reputation around the business. He seems sweet and nice particularly towards me and I think that's what attracted me to him. At first I thought he was shy but it began to frustrate me that we would be alone together in conversation and he had PLENTY of opportunity to ask me out and he didn't. He's not married so I just left it safe to say that he's not interested in me and he'll never ask me out because he had plenty opportunity to do so. Mind you, I've seen him around for years.
So Alison, I do agree with you 1,000% in that if a guy is interested particularly when he has the opportunity, he'll do it no matter how shy or awkard the situation may be. This is why I'll never ask a man out again because if he can't ask me, then chances are, he doesn't feel that passionate about me.
Don't worry, Penelope, you're not by yourself. I do know all to well how you feel. We need to shake these guys out our head and look elsewhere.
Hold your head high as I do, smile and be pleasant. There will be others.
I really am not in the same situation. I didnt write that much in my posts, but this guy who i like, is just an acquaintance. We dont even know each other that well. I have had very brief conversations with him for several years, while I was buying things at his business, but only this year have things sort of changed, at least for me and how I think of him. THe women who replied to my post were negative, i guess that;s their view. I dont really care. I am going to go on my gut emotion and I think you should too. But dont fool yourself. The guy you like has someone, and until that changes, which it could, you are not in it. The only advice I can try to give you is try not to be obsessed with him. Try to think healthy thoughts. Not that you NEED him. You dont. That's silly. Thats something we learn in movies. You dont NEED anyone, but yourself to count on. Best of luck to you! Pen