Made out with co-worker

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Registered: 08-25-2004
Made out with co-worker
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Tue, 12-07-2004 - 3:23pm
Okay, so I did a week long celebration for my birthday and last friday my coworker came out to help me celebrate. He started buying me all these drinks and I drank each one, i simply had more than my limit. So as the nights going on we began talking privately, still being silly coworkers that enjoy each others company. Then the alcohol kicked in, I told him I spent the night at his friends home and that we didn't do anything, so he responds saying if I spent the night at his house we wouldn't do much sleeping. So I started flirting with him then my flirtation became more aggressive and I was asking him to come home with me, however, he kept turning me down and the more he turned me down, the more into I became. So finally, the night ends and we're all about to leave and he gives me a 10 second frencher, I mean his tongue was all in my mouth, I was so shocked and highly excited. We all began walking to our cars and he was the only one parked away so I pulled him back when everyone turned the corner and we began really kissing. We said goodnight and went our separate ways. The next day, (I work in a nightclub), I had my party at the night club we work at he was working their that night. When i walked in my other coworkers anouncement my arrival and he came over gave me a kiss on the cheek and wished me a happy birthday. Then he began saying how drunk he was and I started agreeing with him that I was drunk too, (which i was, but I still knew what i was doing). It so happens that I meet a guy that same night and he looks just like my coworker and my coworker saw me with him, and I was curious to know, if that was a clear sign that I am into my coworker because I am now dating a guy that looks like the mirrored version of him and also, should i just let that night be a drunken night of irresponsible kissing or is he waiting for me to admit that i am interested in him?
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 12-07-2004 - 3:44pm

I think it all really indicates that drinking frees your inhibitions...but I knew that already - LOL.

I don't think he's waiting for you to admit to anything....if he wanted to ask you out - he would. HE had no problem kissing on you. If he's waiting for you to ask him out - well, you wouldn't know until you asked him.

Erin
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