made out w/a guy and he hasn't called!
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| Sun, 05-21-2006 - 10:00pm |
I finally made out w/a guy i've been talking to/hanging out with for about 5 months or so. he invited me over to his place and we talked/hung out. i ended up staying at his place til about 5 am! he kissed me and was very passionate while kissing me, and for me i felt like i kind of held back and wasnt "all in." as much as i like this guy, i was soo afraid and nervous because i questioned his intentions w/me. i asked him if it was just for fun. he said it depends on where things go and what happens, because you never know what can happen. he says he likes to hang out and get to know girls and go w/the flow. he says he doesnt get to know a girl or hang out w/her just for the heck of it these days, because it requires time/energy. he says he was in a 4 year relationship , which ended about 2 years ago. now he has a thick defensive wall up w/girls and does not date. he said i am the first girl he brought back to his place in 2 years. he says he's sincere, and all his friends would say the same. he says he's actually very shy and conservative. I have been hurt by men in the past, and don't trust guys AT ALL now. i dont want to get hurt by him...
its been 2 weeks, and He hasn't called yet, but we still chat online daily. does this mean he isn't interested in me? he hasnt actually called me yet, or asked me to go out yet. he mentioned wanting to see a movie, so i followed up on it. the day he was free, i was busy...and vice-versa. we couldnt find a date we were both free, and the rest of the time he said he was busy w/weddings, b-day parties, vacations. he's going on vacation for 2 weeks. should i be worried? is he just really busy, confused, or taking things slow? or maybe he doesnt know how i feel about him, because i kind of held back while making out w/him? I like him alot...what should i do??

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I don't think you have anything to worry about. I think he is still interested, but like you said, he lives 45 minutes from you, so he probably just didn't stay longer because he had a long drive ahead of him. As for the not trying to kiss you, it's been 3 1/2 weeks, maybe he is just trying to figure out how you feel, just as you are trying to figure out how he feels. He probably doesn't want you to think that he only wants to kiss up on you, since that is what you guys ended up doing last time.
Cheryl
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