Making the First Move
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| Thu, 03-11-2004 - 11:05am |
Met a guy at a club on Friday. He asked for my # which I gave him, but I didn't take his. He called Monday, we talked about 20 minutes or so, he suggested getting together sometime this weekend. The thing is, no lie, no games, I really am pretty busy this weekend. I already have plans for Friday evening. My best friend is in from out of town and I wanted to see her before she left, but she doesn't know if she's leaving on Sat. or Sun. which affects when I see her. I told him that I would like to, but I didn't know what my weekend was looking like because of my friend. So he said something ambiguous like "well, I'll talk to you later this week and maybe we can set something up."
Did that mean he would call me back, or should I? So far he hasn't called. I told myself that if he didn't call me by early evening Thursday (tonight) that I would call him. But a) I'm kinda chicken and b) I don't know if I should? Part of me feels like I should call to show my interest, since I was the one who didn't know what was going on, but part of me is skeptical about pursuing a guy in general. Did he mean he would call me, or am I supposed to call him? If I do call him am I supposed to plan the evening? Is dinner a safe choice?...it seems like such an appropriate first date, but I don't know if that's "outdated" or whatever.
Help!?!?!?!?!?!?!?
K

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You'll know he's sincerely interested if he continues to try and make another date. And if not, there ARE other fish in the sea. Again, good luck, and chill out!
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