Making myself crazy

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-03-2007
Making myself crazy
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Mon, 03-17-2008 - 3:36pm

I asked a guy if we could have dinner last friday, and was shocked actually when he said yes.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-10-2007
Mon, 03-17-2008 - 5:26pm

He may have paid to be nice or he paid because he doesnt like women paying for him.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2008
Mon, 03-17-2008 - 7:21pm

Hi Marie,


Welcome to the board!!


I agree with Snafu that if this was a date depends on if he asked to see you again.

 
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-03-2007
Mon, 03-17-2008 - 8:33pm
If it was a date it was certainly not a bad thing! but i dont know if infact it was or not...He is a great guy, he just works a ton.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2008
Mon, 03-17-2008 - 8:59pm

We'd all LOVE to know what the men in our lives are thinking.

 
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-03-2007
Mon, 03-17-2008 - 11:37pm
So I caved in and went into his work (where a few of my other friends work as well. its a local University) and I stopped into his office to see him tonight.
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-28-2007
Tue, 03-18-2008 - 10:24am
I'm chiming in a little late here, but I would not ask this guy out anymore. You've already asked him out on the first date, and you stopped by his work last night... so, you've given him plenty of opportunities to show that you're interested. If he's interested in you, then he should pursue you. Even if it is just interest as a friend.
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-10-2007
Tue, 03-18-2008 - 1:54pm

Was he joking about being mentally ill or serious?

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2008
Tue, 03-18-2008 - 3:40pm

Hi again,


I'm not sure if he was joking or not about mental illness - not the best thing to joke about - but I would say he was joking.

 
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-03-2007
Tue, 03-18-2008 - 4:06pm

He did not clarify when i asked him what he ment by mentally ill....however i dont think it is anything major.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-10-2007
Tue, 03-18-2008 - 6:59pm

So his statement was sarcastic.

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