Man looking for advice....

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Registered: 09-27-2004
Man looking for advice....
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Mon, 09-27-2004 - 4:57am
Ok, I feel kind of stupid doing this, so forgive me if I make no sense. I have only been in a very few relationships and have very little experience. I'm a very confident person, just a little unsure when it comes to certain things. I am perfectly comfortable with most physical aspects of dating.....except kissing. I tend to get very nervous on the first kiss, no matter how much I like her or how the evening has gone. The first 3-4 'kissing encounters' with a girl, are kind of an exploration period to me. I use them to find out how she likes to be kissed, how she kisses, and so on. I don't think much at all of the first few times I kiss a girl. The thing is, I am going out with a coworker(we've been flirting back and forth for a while now) and she has said several times in the past that the first kiss means everything. It tells her how good he is in bed and if the relationship is even going to be any good.

So, to my question. I was wondering if any of you ladies could give me some pointers on making that first kiss special, really knock her off her feet. Even just general kissing tips would be appreciated(you may mention something I've never thought of before). Thanks in advance.

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Registered: 10-06-2004
Thu, 10-07-2004 - 11:33pm
well i love kissing and my boyfriend says that i'm pretty great...so here it goes, and i hope this helps you out. you don't want to use to much tounge... you can suck on her bottom or top lip which ever you prefer...and slowly use your tounge...sorry i can never seem to spell that word... okay...just relax and don't be too agressive...cause girls don't like that...make it sensual and enjoy it, if you notice, kissing is just amazing. these are little simle things that make a world of a difference! oh yeah don't forget the gum!!! that REALLY makes a difference! good luck!
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Registered: 09-27-2004
Fri, 10-08-2004 - 9:39am
First Kiss. Do it at a time when you FEEL it.. during an intimate conversation or even just a close one. Soft brush on the lips, let her respond.. and from there it should be matter over mind! The surprise kiss is the best, like during a conversation. That is actually the only first kiss I can remember! :)
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Registered: 05-20-2004
Fri, 10-08-2004 - 11:38am
I think it is soo sweet of you to be concerned. Kissing is very sensual. However when I really like the guy....kissing just comes natural. I would just go with what feels good to you. She will love it.

Good Luck!

 

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