man looking at inappropriate net sites

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Registered: 05-03-2004
man looking at inappropriate net sites
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Mon, 05-03-2004 - 6:16pm
I very recently inadvertently came across a small collection of video and picture files on my computer (that i share with my fiance) and found homosexual based porn downloads. I am trying to figure out how to approach my man and find out where this came from. We have been together for almost 2 years and he has always told me he does not even care for 'porn'. Which really I don't care if he is looking at the porn, but the fact that it is 'homosexual' guy/guy porn, disturbs me. What should I DO?!

Thank you

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Registered: 04-15-2003
Mon, 05-03-2004 - 9:34pm

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Registered: 11-30-2003
Tue, 05-04-2004 - 12:52am
You could ask him about it, probably embarrass him - really depends on yours and his views on porn in general I think.

I wouldn't make too big of a deal out of it though. Lots of people look at porn that is photos of things they'd not actually do. It could just be curiousity to see it, something that may turn him on in fantasy, but not reality.

Have you never looked at porn you'd not really want to try? Perhaps girl/girl photos, or orgie photos, or interacial, or just anything that was something to look at but not really do? I know I have, and I am not a lesbian, am not interested in an orgie or in men of another race. Perhaps I'm the strange one..... LOL

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Registered: 10-12-2003
Tue, 05-04-2004 - 6:05am
Curious... were these files organized or were they just downloaded randomly? The reason I ask is that I have had porn on my machine as well but I never specifically downloaded it... (If you want the technical aspect of what occured, email me.) Just wanted to throw that out there in case there may be another explanation for it all.

Good luck and keep us posted.