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| Wed, 08-17-2005 - 2:16pm |
Here is my dilemma, my girlfriend who we have been serious for about two weeks and seeing each other for a month took her kids out to california to see their father and grandparents on the fathers side. We tried talking on the phone at first but the ex kept getting mad at her. When asked if She wanted me to call her yesterday she said she would call me and never did. She hasnt returned the voicemail I left today, should I be worried that we are in trouble? I told her that I loved her yesterday and she said it back, if she wasnt serious she would have not said it back correct? When we were talking earlier in the day I made a stupid joke asking her if she still referred to me as her boyfriend, she said yeah why wouldnt she and we continued talking on a normal basis, should I be worried that she took the statement bad? Am I just over analyzing this or are we in trouble?

You're overanalyzing. I am sure this has got to be an awkward time for her being at her ex's family's home. Her ex is an idiot for getting mad at her for talking to another man since they are broken up but he's the one with the problem. Maybe he is hoping they will get back together or something. Regardless, your girlfriend is probably just trying to keep the peace by not flaunting calling you in front of the family. Don't freak out and get all jealous and clingy and don't say any more silly jokes. She is with you and will be coming back to you soon so just pick up where things left off.
I would suggest taking things a little more slowly, however. If you are serious after only two weeks, that is FAST. She might have some unresolved issues and taking your time is usually a good idea. You don't have to cool it, but just take your time and get to know each other more.
I agree with the other posters.
She's probably feeling a bit uncomfortable, that's all. Being around the ex's family can be a little awkward to begin with. I remember when my ex-MIL first learned a had a new BF... She cried! It can be weird for everyone.
Just be patient, and let her call you when she can. When she returns, pick up where you left off and take it easy :)