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man's behavior
| Wed, 09-29-2004 - 6:59pm |
I have been dating this guy for three months. Things seem to be going fine so far. We are moving at a slow pace. I like him alot. We have a very pleasant relationship. We are very polite to one another and we really don't disagree on things.
Should I be worried if he doesn't call me to talk on the phone? I am starting to feel that he may be losing interest in me. It may be my insecurities stirring in me. Lately, I would be the one to call and he would ask me out in that same phone call. We see each other once or twice a week. I don't really know how he truly feels except that he has told me that he likes me a month ago. He is kind of quiet, reserved, and doesn't really express his feelings very well.
Should I be worried if he doesn't call me to talk on the phone? I am starting to feel that he may be losing interest in me. It may be my insecurities stirring in me. Lately, I would be the one to call and he would ask me out in that same phone call. We see each other once or twice a week. I don't really know how he truly feels except that he has told me that he likes me a month ago. He is kind of quiet, reserved, and doesn't really express his feelings very well.
I haven't been in a relationship in a long time and am not sure if I should be worried with this type of behavior. Thanks in advance for your insights.

Hug to both wind1valley & caveofemptiness ^_^.
I am in a similar situation with wind1valley: this guy and I have been hanging out for about 2 months... at least once a week. Sadly, I am still in that VERY frustrating stage. And yes, I did the same thing... not calling and let him do the work. He started out not calling until the last two weeks calling a few times weekly.
But hmm... wind1valley, how do you know whether your guy friend is seeing you as more than a buddy? I can hardly tell what my friend is thinking too. At least caveofemptiness knows his friend likes her a month ago.
Some guys are just not talkers on the phone and do not want to talk unless to make plans just remeber it is not you its them.
Missy
well my guy should be seeing me as more than a friend, he was the one who pursued me!!! I do know that he sees me as more than a "bed buddy", he has introduced me to him family members etc. also he has been asking me when i am going to tell my dad about him (which is a big step as my dad will not accept our relationship him being black). also he said this to me once during an IM conversation: "I am in love with your shape but i cannot speak" he is very private and just cannot talk about his feelings...i do not like it because it makes it very confusing for me (as you know yourself with your man) but i cant do much about it...we have been seeing (ok, like once a week at best lol) each other about 3 months now, only time can tell really and the sooner you realize that as well, the better..:)
I just got so confused at times and hated to be so obsessed about figuring out what's going on. Missy, if there's anything which I doubt (hahahah), I will update here. :-)
Good luck to both of you!