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| Sat, 05-27-2006 - 12:23am |
I am a woman and married for 14 years with a very nice guy. We have 3 children ages 13, 9, 2 respectively. Ther is no problem in our relationship right now. We are happy with the way things are going with our life. Recently, just a few months ago i met this man, i mean my husband also knows this man. I only meant to try to have sex with other man except from my husband, but it turns out that we both fall in love after that first time. I know of his past. He just got into marrying his wife now because he got her pregnant but only just after a year that they've been together. He really doesn't meant to marry his wife, because he really has a girlfriend whom he is set to marry, this girl just came to their home and told him that she promise to herself that the first guy she had sex with is the guy she should marry.
Ok now, we are both so deeply in love, even wanting to leave his wife for me. Please i need some advice on how could i live with these. I really am falling for him.
Ok now, we are both so deeply in love, even wanting to leave his wife for me. Please i need some advice on how could i live with these. I really am falling for him.

If you are happy with your husband, why would you want to cheat with another man? Honey I would say, in most marriages, the husband or wife meets someone who attracts them. Since we make wedding vows to forsake all others and cling to one another, we are loyal to that oath. You are not being loyal to your husband.
You take a chance to lose your marriage. How would your children feel about knowing you are having sex with another man? As far as that other man goes, he is thoroughly messed up. It sounds like you both want to have your cake and eat it to.
You ask the question, "How can I live with these things?" You can't.
Go to this ivillage newsgroup, you will get all the help you need from others in your situation:
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rlending?redirCnt=1
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